‘Women compel men to marry’- Uncle Ebo Whyte
"Uncle" Ebo Whyte.
Uncle Ebo Whyte, a seasoned writer and relationship expert, has dropped yet another bombshell. Men prefer not to marry, in general, is a painful realization for women.
On TV3 NewDay, Uncle Ebo Whyte backed up his claim by saying that most marriages/weddings are the result of women’s continuous efforts. Women compel men to marry them, to put it bluntly.
He noted that “a lot of weddings wouldn’t have happened if the woman didn’t put pressure. If a man puts pressure, he has a reason; he fears losing the girl. But, quite often, men would be okay with just dating for the rest of their lives because we don’t have a biological clock. So there is no pressure on men”.
He went on to speak about the demands placed on women, which are conspicuously missing on the other side. This, he believes, is crucial in relationship dynamics and necessitates a more lasting committed connection.
“Society never pushes pressure on us (men). Ask your young men here, maybe every now and then, their mother would call them, but generally, nobody puts pressure on them. But let a girl turn 25, 26, 28 … even in the church, there is pressure. Our society, I am talking about the Ghanaian society, puts pressure.
A lot of marriages come on because the woman said, what are we waiting for? If you say I am the person, then what are we waiting for? You have a good job, I have a good job, so what are we waiting for? It (marriage) wouldn’t have happened if the woman hadn’t in one way or the other, gently, subtly or overtly pushed it along”, The seasoned playwright disclosed.
Source: Richard Mensah Adonu
